Tuesday, September 16, 2008
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The Worth of the Unemployed
I was just watching a news segment on the Lehman Brothers-bankruptcy filing. ABC was shooting footage of former employees carrying out their office-belongings in bags and boxes. Coffee cups, notebooks, mousepads, framed pictures; things that made up their working life now condensed into a few totes.
I was that person last February. It's an awful feeling to be "let go." Not only must you deal with the rejection of losing your job, but you then face multiple rejections when you begin the search for your new one. As I studied the faces of people leaving Lehman Brothers, I realized there are only so many jobs available for them, and while the best will quickly become re-employed, the weakest of the company now face a long road of uncertainty.
What would I have done without God last year when I lost my job? My employer didn't file bankruptcy resulting in every employee being laid off; I was found lacking. I didn't have desirable work-place qualities. As my educational experience didn't translate well into this workforce, I spent three months in a very anxious search.
Yet also I spent much of that time reading the Bible, enough to convince the logical part of me that being jobless didn't matter. Even if I was the most unemployable person in Michigan, I had value and potential in God's eyes.
Which is enough...a fact I still had to convince the emotional part of me. I have always based my worth upon what I was accomplishing on my job and what I could do for other people. Suddenly, no job, no people...I felt worthless.
"But God..." Until he led me to my dream job, Jesus made certain that I was able to pay every bill and that I never went hungry. I realized in this period that ultimately God is the one who signs my checks. In fact, I told him as much, essentially dumping the resonsibility of my wellbeing where he told us to dump it: on him.
We'll always be enough for God, regardless of what any earthly employer has to say, and if we strive to only please him, then our efforts will be enough for any honorable boss.
Do not gloat over me my enemies! For though I fall, I will rise again. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord himself will be my light. Micah 7:8, NLT
Has a time of unemployment ever turned into a time of blessing? Do you feel like the world determines a person's self worth based on what you do for a living?
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I do think the world decides worth by what you do for a living. Stay at home moms like myself are often looked at a crazy.
Luckily I don't care what the world thinks about me.
When I moved out the first time, I lost my job. It was a feeling I cannot describe to you. The season was low, so they cut all my hours at once, and I couldn't do anything/ had some issues.
I'll always have to have a job, I think, even if I end up pumping sewage or something nasty, nobody wants to do.
This post is really encouraging because I believe all of us fight to really believe we're worth so much in God's eyes.
I was unemployed for several months and learned so much during that time. I really trusted in God for the first time in my life, living by His grace and provision on a daily basis. I learned how to work really hard and appreciate everything I'd taken for granted for so long. It was an amazing time and I'm so glad I can look back on it with thanks.
I think we really need to pray for all the financial companies in the US. Times are rough and I think it's only going to get harder.
i think you find out a lot about yourself during unemployment - the uncertainty of who you are, what you're worth, etc.
but you say it best - in God's eyes, you have so much value and potential...
we often forget this and fill ourselves with other things - like a title, status, money, or fame...all things that will never satisfy us in the end.
This is very timely, and very encouraging. As I type this, I'm sitting by the phone waiting for a call that may determine whether I get a full-time job or I continue on an 8-month spell of part-time, sporadic, and limited work, with a budget that (as one of my professors puts it) "requires two miracles a month." It does wear on you (especially as I want to feel useful and to provide for my wife.) Yet in a way it is oddly encouraging. I know if I get this job, it will be God providing, just as He's provided over the past several months.
Thanks for the encouragement!
This is a timely post. I stumbled on this and had to chuckle. I am currently unemployed, sorta by choice. In an attempt to not bore you with the details of my drama, I will say I kinda "went on strike" from a teaching postion in hopes of making more money. It obviously didn't turn out as planned by me. I am the one that didn't sign the contract, yet, I feel I have been "fired" from my job. I sit here confused and bored, a little scared, a lot bitter. I have a lot to let the Lord work through this year. The dessert hurts. I pray I can shut my mouth and open my heart to the Lord during this time of rest. Thanks for the encouragement.
i was let go once and for four months it's brought me some joys and some massive amounts of pain...
what really sucks is when much of culture puts worth on our income... and about the only thing that makes a man a man according to our culture is his ability on the ballfield, the size of his billfold, and his performance in bed... forget his character, integrity, and spiritual health....
once i figured this out... it didn't phase me too much... it just sucked that i couldn't go out like I wanted to... church was even a struggle... but God provided... in many forms... which was awesome...
The same thing happened to us last year. My hubby lost his job, and went without pay for 3 weeks, and yet all our bills were paid and we could afford food. We were really shown that it is God that provides for us. Then my hubby was able to find a much better job which has been a huge blessing for us, and it never would have happened if he wasn't let go.
I have been unemployed for the last two years and 2 months,
I have learnt quite a bit about myself during this time.
I've just left a job rather abruptly. It's frightening, but a little exhilarating too. I know I made the right choice, and whatever comes next, well... I'll leave it in God's hands and let my resume speak for itself.
that's terrific that God taught you that, and it was great to hear. I think many many times when God places us in a tough position it's only to bring us closer to Him, which it obviously did for you.
That was very encouraging. Like you, I was found lacking and let go from my last full-time gig, and although that was over eighteen months ago (my, how time passes), God has provided for me every step - and month of the way.
It's pretty difficult to remember that Someone (God) still finds you worthy and worth something, even after rejection after rejection. Still, He is faithful to His own.
This was a really powerful post. It's very inspiring to hear your story. I'm a recent college graduate who's having some trouble finding a job/ finding purpose. But you've inspired me today, to keep going and trust in God and not other people.
Thank you.
I was out of work for nearly a year. God was telling me something: MOVE. I didn't want to move, I was among the most wonderful body of believers I'd ever been around. But every job I tried to get...I actually got 2 job, but the mysteriously fell through. It wasn't a mystery at all, God closed every door I tried to open. When I moved where God wanted me I got a job with the first company that interviewed me.
It's taken me a long time to recover from the confusion I've felt over being forced to move. I still don't know what good has come from the whole thing. It takes a few years sometimes to see what God has done. Though I don't know why, I have enough understanding to know God has His reasons for doing what He does.
BP
I feel like that right now. I graduated with my BA in psych/soc and last year about this time I began working for a group home. My first week I worked 60 hours. By the time I realized the job was draining the life from me I was working at least an 80 hour week and I was exhausted and spent. I gave my boss my notice and he gave me my schedule for the next two weeks---105 hours in 9 days. I walked out and never looked back.
God has blessed me with a job in retail, and I was recently promoted but I hate it. I hate the fact that I have to wear heels for 8 hours. The fact that no one tells me what's going on. I am starting to feel totally hopeless. I have been looking for a job since February with no luck. This town is like a black hole...an abyss. It's ridiculous how difficult it is for me to find something, and yet I cannot leave....
Finding worth outside of work is difficult for me as well. I do not feel productive and I have not for a long time. I feel guilty for not being able to finish my work out at the Methodist home and I hate working in retail.
&& this has all been floating in my mind since the day I graduated college. I have no idea where I should be or where I am supposed to go from here....only God knows and He has yet to show me. I know that some say I should be learning from this, but all I have learned is that my education means nothing and I am doomed to work these jobs until something better comes along which could be...years....
At a school where it feels like your value is based upon what job or internship you can land, it's really hard for me to have a peace of mind. In fact, with the job fair in less than a day, I'm more anxious than ever. But the reminder is AWESOME
. God provides and God has a plan. I shouldn't be worried about what people think of me as long as i put my faith in God. But I do ask for prayers, because I struggle and worry about my job prospects. With the guidance of God, I will find out what I want to do and what God wills me to do
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Glad you're back in employment and especially happy for you that you've found your dream job. Congrats!
Yep.
Amazing, isn't it?
Namaste!
i've never been a great thinker. found laying on park benches trying to find the odd jobs to pick up enough money for a decent eat & to fit that into the schedule of where's the next place be gonna be without having to worry about people taking the only 20 outta the pocket, though being a kid you find out everything you're afraid of is exactly what you need to embrace - which i probably shouldn't have done all the stupid things i've done so eagerly in the past. though here we are. we sustain in such a harsh world, name it blessing or luck it's a test of will you give up? or learn from those scraps of teachings everybody's been trying to cram into you since day 1. it's all just some strange stuff.
We're in this boat right now. My husband has been doing one day at a time things since July (working on nearly three months now) and worked contract IT before that since we returned to my home town after his layoff in Dallas.
It was a struggle, but until this past Friday I was working a contract position (another in a string of short-term and contract things that didn't work out for whatever reason.) I was let go on Friday with zero warning, although not entirely unexpected.
We're both applying for everything we can find, and trying to remain positive, but I know my husband is depressed and feeling like he's not providing for the family in the way he ought. My heart goes to him, and I am trying to be supportive, but coupled with the fact he's not a believer, it's just harder on him. I have faith that God will bring us through, and have spent time studying and praying and trying to lay this at God's feet and just continue moving forward with a heart grateful for what we have, but it can be difficult at best.
I know God will provide, and we won't be destitute. But it's so hard to watch him struggle with contract after contract, and now week after week after week with nothing. I wish I could give him the thing he needs to get through, but that's something he has to find for himself.
Please God some who have been through these hard times find it in their hearts to give to those who live literally on the streets - though no fault of their own, or of God. We work on the streets with the homeless; they have a saying in Canada, "only three pay checks away from being homeless." .. Let our blessings and thankfulness spill over onto the rejected and poor; for then, as Jesus says in Matthew 25, in feeding the hungry and clothing the naked, we are feeding and clothing Him. PS if you want to find a wonderful way to do this, mail me...Blessings, Sister
This is something that I have a tenderheart for, too. The people who are losing jobs, and don't have a relationship with God. I have been without a permanent job since April 2004, and it's been an interesting adventure.
I broke my arm in Aug 2005, and had no insurance. But my unemployment benefits were too high to give me any welfare assistance, since I was single. O well...now I have bills and a crooked wrist to show for it. Does that make me feel like a neglected child of the King? Not a bit! It has been an adventure, and I still got better medical care than the folks in New Orleans at the same time (right during Katrina).
I've had temp jobs that kept my car repaired, my immediate bills paid (cell phone, housing, necessary utilities, etc.), and helped me take three vacations I wouldn't have given myself permission to go on if it wasn't so clear that God wanted me to take them.
I had some times when I was at the food pantry, and when I was nearly going to have to live in my car - I won't omit that. But I still feel that my friends, family and acquaintances have seen my situation as a testimony that is holding up under scrutiny. For that, I thank God. Cause I needed to know I could do that.
I pray that all of the rest of us unemployed folks keep remembering what you brought up: that God IS in control, and He is the provider of anything we have. It won't be any trend that will determine if you are hired soon or not, either; so we need to stop being so watchful of them (yeah, it's hard, I know).
glad someone had the courage to write about this. i totally can relate, but in a different way. i've been trying to get a teaching job for several years and for a while it made no sense logically that it hadn't worked out and that i've had to settle on other things, but God knew what He was doing all along. God knew I needed more time with my daughter and He has taught me so much about what's really important in life, the value of people who get overlooked/misjudged, change in priorities, more focus on God, etc. We've had to make a lot of sacrifices, but there have been amazing spiritual blessings; we're building on eternal stuff here...a very strong relationship with my teenager (so she can be set apart) is so much more important than having my own house, better car, newer clothes, more entertainment, travel, etc. The best Christmas my daughter said she ever had was the one where my daughter used what little Christmas gift (money) she had to buy groceries for a family. praise God!
Actually last year the very same happened to me. I lost my job (do not wanna go into details why and how, but it is enough to say that cannot entirely blame myself for it) and it greatly affected my self esteem, i felt betrayed and abused by backstabbers. The day i walked out of the office for the last time, i vowed to myself that i wont let the whole thing let me down and i would find somewhere else soon. I forced myself to be optimistic and I totally surrendered myself to God's will and I asked him to help me, and at the same time i exercised self-scrutinity as well, as i felt i had to deal with some issues within myself first. God had shown me so much about myself and revealed so much about Himself during that period. I believe i experienced a miracle as i got another job offer within 3 working days, attended 4 interviews the same week, got 3 other offers and at the end, i only had to make a choice where i wanted to work next. It took me only a week to find a new job. I still work for the same company, and I praise God for it as i like this job a lot better and the conditions and the people are much better, too.
I do feel we are judged based on our achievements at work, and also at school; fancy job titles and status symbols seem to be very important. I try not to judge people on their academic achievements or what kind of position they hold at a company; we are all equally important and valuable people, regardless of whether you are "just" a cleaner or the managing director.